It Begins

Ok, so this is my first blog. My Fav Cousin told me to try it cause it is cheaper than therapy.
So I decided to write about my ex. Always a fun topic..... ok so it goes without saying that he is an ass. Materialistic, self-centered, chauvinistic, need I go on. It was all about HIS stuff and MY stuff, it was never OUR stuff, unless it suited him, it was ok for him to borrow $500 from me and not pay me back, but debts to him HAD to be paid back in full right away, when I needed help with my bills he told me no but when he needed help and I said no he freeked!!!!!. On my day off I had to clean the apartment, But when he went 7 days in a row without work do you think the place got cleaned???????????? NO!!!!
Once in a while ONCE, I would of loved to come home to have dinner waiting for me, NOPE I worked an 8 hour shift and come home to do dishes, make dinner, more dishes while he was home ALL DAY. And who can forget Saturdays......, I work Saturdays always have always will it is part of the business I am in there is no surprise there. So He would clean all day Saturday( even after I said leave it till Sunday when I can help) but NO he had to do it on Sat then he had the GALL to bitch cause he did all the cleaning and I did nothing!!!!!!!!!!!!! And finely the breakup. On Monday May 16 I informed him that I was moving out... He didn't take me seriously. So on Tues I ( with a little help from my wonderful baby sister) packed up some stuff and moved out. While this was happening he started to guilt trip me, " oh you are breaking my heart (he doesn't have one, doesn't have feelings either) why are you hurting me" to which I replied to " if you loved me you wouldn't treat me like you do and hurt me on a constant bases" He replied " I don't" then my sister jumped in and started to defend me he told her to shut up and that it wasn't any of her business, HA! That is when I got in his face to tell him that my sister is a better person than he will ever be and he raised his hand to strike me..... BIG MISTAKE. Danielle (my sister) almost clocked him, and for that matter I almost did too. He backed down and we took off. The Next day after work I went to get more stuff and had some BIG scary friends of my sister with me, he started to get lippy with me till he saw them, Danielle's friend Heather was with us and she forgot her coffee inside when she went back to get it rob had trashed the place garbage and recycling everywhere, it is my thought that is she hadn't saw that he would of called the cops and told them I did it. On Friday the 20 I went back to get the rest of my stuff with my dad and His best friend Todd. Neither of them would let me go in alone (protecting me) and we hardly said anything to him.

Now my sister has a theory, She thinks that he is mad that I am not collasping in a fit of tears begging him to let me back. he is pissed that I am happy, way happier single than I was with him for the last 3 months

Now the moral of the story.......... ALWAYS live with someone first that is how you know their true personality. and don't take shit from anyone you are to important for that.